M-Lisada Benefit, Oyster Bay, N.Y., June 3

I’m reprinting a letter from Chris Weigers, an invitation to what has become an annual event:

I have been involved with M-lisada since January, 2010 when I journeyed to Kampala for an 8 week stay. Nearly 2 and a half years later my connection with M-lisada continues to deepen. We were able to purchase land about 40 kilometers north of Kampala last year due in part to the two prior fundraisers held at The Homestead. I thank all those past contributors for helping in this great accomplishment! We have begun planting food such as maize, cassava, beans, and bananas on this land in a step toward more self-sufficiency and an improved diet.

Now we wish to build a second home and a vocational school on that land. M-lisada houses 80 children now at more than full capacity. On a daily basis we aid these other street kids by providing a meal, a place to bathe, and a respite from a rootless existence. However, at dusk we have to close the gate and send them back to the street to find a place to sleep and survive another day.

It is still a struggle to take care of our own 80 kids. The school year begins in February and this year we ran short of money so there are a handful of kids who could not attend school. The second term has now begun and it is possible to enroll students at this juncture to catch up. There is virtually no public school in Kampala so tuition, books, uniforms, etc. must be paid by the student. If anyone wishes to send a student to school please write to me and I will give you details and an idea of costs.

Notwithstanding, our long-term goal is to be able to give hope and a firm foundation to more vulnerable children. While it is difficult to focus on the future when the present is so challenge-filled, we must do so. Forward thinking is the key to long-term success. With that in mind, the main thrust of this fundraising campaign is to gather money to begin building on the land. The immediate benefit with be that we will have a small home where we can stay while working the land. As of now we commute, a time-consuming and costly method.

Long term, we see a home far removed from the slums of Kampala where the kids can breathe fresh air and learn marketable skills. Together, we can achieve this!

Please join us for a musical afternoon at “The Homestead” along with my good friends “The Jim Pin Band”, “Little Wilson Band”, and the one and only “Willie Steel”. The  menu offers great food and, weather permitting, we will be outside on the rear courtyard. Admission is free. I want to see many of you there to talk and laugh. Any contribution is welcome. A little goes a long way and a lot goes even further but the point is that whatever someone gives is meaningful. One dollar feeds a couple of kids for a day at M-lisada. That is worthwhile! It goes on from there. In truth, no gift is too small. If we align hundreds of hearts we can achieve tremendous results.
As difficult as it is to conceive, M-lisada is a magical place. Out of the desperation and destitution there is an amazing spirit and joy that flows through the home. I wish you could all visit. If you ever wish to venture to Uganda you would be most welcome. Until then, have a peek at my YouTube videos by searching for ‘cweigers’ or M-lisada. The one entitled “M-lisada Time To Grow” gives you a good insight and you can ‘meet’ some of the kids.

Thanks for reading this. I hope to see you on June 3rd. Feel free to write me for any reason. If you can not attend and wish to contribute you can do so via my Paypal account: chrisofmlisada@gmail.com

Weebale nnyo ~ Thank-you very much!

Download a flyer for the event and please pass it along.

On behalf of Chris and M-Lisada, thanks.

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School Days Are Done

Last Thursday, May 10, was my last day of school, and even though I loved the past two years, I’m glad it’s done. It’s hard to believe that I don’t have any more exams, and for the moment I am truly retired.

David and I have already celebrated my new freedom, spending a week in New Orleans at JazzFest. I wanted to take lots of photos of the brass bands for a planned documentary about music, New Orleans and M-Lisada, but I wilted under the heat. And there was so much noise that the audio just blew itself to pieces on the video that I shot.

In the crowd of 65,000 people at Fest, particular sartorial determinations stood out from the crowd. I spotted a chubby woman wearing a tu-tu, and I thought of doing a photo essay called “What Were You Thinking While Getting Dressed This Morning?” Favorite t-shirts sported the following pronouncements: “It’s not the heat, it’s the stupidity,” and “What if the hokey pokey really is what it’s all about?”

Soon I will begin work in earnest for M-Lisada. I have to write the copy for the website—I’d like the website to be finished when I go to Uganda on June 12.

I also want to plan a celebration in Kampala this summer, to celebrate M-Lisada’s 15th anniversary and their achievements. And I want to begin to do fundraising work in New York.

The news from M-Lisada is bright. Here’s a note from darling Bosco Segawa:

“I am so happy to be sending this email to you because everyone at m-Lisada home is alive and kicking, I mean in good health conditions.” He goes on to say that he has “attached a report car for one of the children called Kigazi Ibrahim, who spent one year and two months on the streets of Kampala. Ibra was taken back to his family in 2010. . . when we went back to visit Ibra we saw that he had performed this well in class.” Please download M-Lisada’s April Newsletter.

Here’s a note from The Mummy Foundation—the group of girl children and their mothers who are affiliated with M-Lisada.

Kevin Ssabaganzi writes:

Hello friends,

Glad to inform you that the girls will be starting school, thanks for everyone who helped with the fees, books, and pens. The renovations are done, yet to finish up with the furnishing. The Mummy savings group is also progressing. They voted for their representative at the council yesterday. Thanks so much every one.

Before I go to Uganda in June, I am collecting used laptops. If you have anything you don’t use anymore, please let me know. The children at M-Lisada would be thrilled to have a working computer, even if it’s a little ancient by our standards.

I’ve also been given a pile of baseball equipment to take with me. Photos from the airport on the way to Uganda via Turkey should be riotous.

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The Kony Kerfuffle

If you haven’t already seen the controversial video from Invisible Children, Kony 2012, watch it here and then come back.

I don’t want you to waste your time. I think the Invisible Children’s new media campaign is at the least idiotic and quite possibly harmful. If you don’t agree, skip this particular blog, but please come back for the next one.

Invisible Children began in 2003 when three feckless teenagers from southern California went to Africa looking for adventure. I did a paper on them in 2010 (Invisible Children: The Rough Cut) because they really found a worthwhile story in northern Uganda—children from the villages in and around Gulu were coming to urban areas for safety. There are parts of that wonderful original film in the new piece. (The original Invisible Children: Rough Cut film can be seen here.)

The three kids publicized their film with some of the most amazing media events I’ve ever seen, and that’s why I wrote about them. But NGO’s hated them because they brought silliness instead of measured involvement and gravitas. Still, I liked them.

But they also spent half the money they brought in on salaries and promotion, leaving too little for the causes. Yet I still liked them because they were different and they had a million teenagers around the world following their story. Not much reaches this group, and Invisible Children did.

This project is different, though. There is too much grandstanding. Their finances have been uncovered, and money is not going where it has been promised. And how exactly are they going to bring down Kony? Are teens going to hunt for him? Are teens going to hire militias to hunt for him? Or pay locals to hunt for him? Sorry—all bad, irresponsible ideas. Especially since IC seems to think Kony is in Uganda, and he hasn’t been in Uganda in years. And with the 100 U.S. soldiers keeping peace in the area, these yahoo kids are just going to get in the way. And worse, there may be some stupid Rambo teenager who will go to Africa looking for mayhem.

I believe in stopping Kony, but I believe in doing it in a measured, responsible way. I have lost respect for Invisible Children. I always thought they were dumb, but I forgave them early on because they were shaking up the world. I don’t forgive them anymore. They should know better by now. They’re not 18 anymore.

P.S. I may not answer to the name Rochelle anymore. My Ugandan friends have much more colorful names for me: Liz Buyondo calls me “your excellency”; Medie Lutwama calls me “mum Presido” (my personal favorite); and of course Bosco calls me Nagawa, which means I am part of a monkey clan—he’s Sagawa, chief of the clan.

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Navigating Two Worlds

I’ve come up from under a huge pile of papers to say hello. This is my last semester at The New School and I’m taking one final class: Fundraising. Once I finish this class, none of you will be safe! But no need to wait for my plea, the Donate button is operational and waiting for you. We have even received donations from people we don’t know, which is humbling.

Don’t forget, your donation is tax deductible. I am almost finished with the paperwork for the IRS, requesting tax-exempt status. That job has been put on hold, however, because there is a more pressing application in the house. Last week The Stars Foundation notified me that M-Lisada’s application for a $100,000 grant has been shortlisted. We made the cut from 730 applicants to 40. Our reward is that now I have to write eight essays for the second half of the application.

Strange as it sounds, I actually like doing proposals, and I think we have a decent chance at this one. The application is due at the end of March, and Stars will make the announcement at the end of September.

I am working with a designer, Krista Samoles, and a technical director, Bonaya Mudda—we are creating a world-class website, Mlisada.org. It should be up and running in a month or two.

I’m getting ready to go back to Uganda this summer, from June 12 to July 22. I’m happy for company if any of you would like to experience M-Lisada firsthand.

Well, enough chatter, I have to get back to the Stars application. I’m sorry there are no pictures to accompany this post, but we’ll have some visuals soon.

Rochelle

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Visiting the West Coast

David and I took a much too short trip to the West Coast. This was an unusual trip for me—there were no wild animals about, no electrical outages, no horrible hotel experiences—just family and friends. We stayed at the Gables Inn in Sausalito (we highly recommend it), and ate great food until I thought I would burst. It was a truly relaxing and loving vacation, and I saw everyone’s children, ages 14 months to 20-something years. The children were the best part.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

First stop: Ana (my daughter) and her family. The athletic high points were watching the boys Noah and Sam play flag football, and all of us trying our hand at trampoline jumping at the House of Air. As you can imagine our abilities were a mixed bag. The boys practically flew, Jeff showed amazing stamina and planning ability—he was bouncing off the walls like a human pinball—and Adriana made a solid showing. Then there were the old people—David actually did well, and me, well, not so much, as I couldn’t help thinking about the possible consequences of landing badly.

Sam, the birthday boy, chose a fondue restaurant, The Melting Pot, for dinner, and it was astonishingly good. We all really enjoyed the food and happiness around the table.

Noah, Sam and I had marvelous conversations about travel as I tried to bribe the children to go away with me on a vacation.

Dancing was a recurring theme. Sam showed us his fancy footwork while following along with his Michael Jackson video game.

When we visited David (nephew from marriage #1) and his family in Los Angeles, we were treated with more dancing from Aviv, age almost five. After a lengthy prologue about its musical characteristics, he and his 14-month-old brother Lev danced to an ever-quickening electronica version of the Zorba the Greek theme. Aviv also sang a unique rendition of The Battle Hymn of the Republic (his choice—he’d just learned it), and of course marched in and out of the view of the camera during the entire performance.

We visited grownups too, and were reminded over and over again how much we love and miss our friends and family on the West Coast, and made promises to try to visit more often.

One of the more poignant aspects of this trip is this letter itself. Normally I would be writing all of this to Marjorie, and showing her in her living room how silly David and I looked on the trampoline. I am very sad that she and I did not have that happy experience together.

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Marjorie Weller, 1924-2011

My mother-in-law, Marjorie Weller, died on December 6 after a brief illness. So brief that just over a month earlier, I included her in a short film that I shot at her home on October 22, and you can see how animated and adorable she looked at the time. We are heartbroken at her passing, but I’ll remember her this way: smiling, funny, and full of life.

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M-Lisada Documentary

Here’s the M-Lisada documentary—I may make some small changes and/or reshoot segments next summer when I return to Uganda, but this is close enough to final to post.

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